Living with rheumatoid arthritis (RA) is more than joint pain. It’s a chronic pain, accompanied by many other symptoms, that often gets worse over time. Symptoms can come at inconvenient times without any warning which makes them difficult to manage. But what people think RA feels like and what it actually feels like are often two different things.
RA can zap your energy. Fatigue is one of the most common symptoms of RA; 40% to 80% of patients with RA will experience fatigue at some point. Fatigue is also one of the most frustrating symptoms of RA because it more than tiredness. It can leave you feeling completely worn out and drained of energy, even when you’re not doing anything physical. Sometimes it may feel like there isn’t enough sleep or coffee to help your fatigue.
Fatigue is frequently described as an overwhelming feeling of exhaustion, whole-body tiredness, or decreased mental and physical capacity.
People with RA often describe their fatigue as overwhelming, debilitating, or feeling “bone-tired.” The feeling of constant exhaustion can also leave people with RA feeling depressed, irritable, or anxious.
Some causes of fatigue include:
The psychological consequences of RA are just as prevalent as the physical symptoms. It is estimated that between 14% and 62% of RA patients also suffer from depression. There are a few causes of depression related to RA. One is that proinflammatory cytokines responsible for disrupting the serotonergic system aid in the development of depressive symptoms. Cytokines are proteins that control the growth and activity of other immune system cells and blood cells.
Psychologically, depressive symptoms related to RA can be a result of increasing impairment from the disease. Patients may feel helpless and powerless as the disease progresses. No matter the cause, experiencing depressive symptoms can make it difficult for people with RA to cope with the disease.
People with RA may also suffer from anxiety. Between 21% and 70% of RA patients experience anxiety. Some patients with RA may be worried about a relapse and the pain that accompanies it. That fear can escalate into a panic that causes the patient to avoid any situations where pain may be exacerbated.
Depression can be treated with medication, psychotherapy, or a combination of both. Psychotherapy can include modalities like cognitive behavioral therapy, behavioral activation, or problem-solving therapy. Medications include antidepressants like selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or serotonin and noradrenaline reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs).
Some people with rheumatoid arthritis may experience a loss of appetite. The condition itself can cause a loss of appetite, but certain medications may be the culprit. Some patients with RA might lose their appetite because of the stress of pain related to the disease. Fatigue can also be a factor in loss of appetite.
Loss of appetite with RA can lead to unintentional weight loss, but weight loss can also be caused by RA itself. If you are unable to eat or losing too much weight without meaning to, it's important to consult with your doctor to determine the cause and determine the right course of action.
How does rheumatoid arthritis really feel?
Rheumatoid arthritis isn’t “just” arthritis. When you have RA, it affects your body or one part of your body and many aspects of life, like activities of daily living to relationships and ability to work. Because RA is an invisible disease, it can be hard for others to understand what you’re feeling when you are experiencing symptoms. Symptoms of RA include pain or aching in more than one joint, stiffness in more than one joint, tenderness and swelling in more than one joint, and weakness. Here are some other symptoms you might feel with RA.Fatigue

- Inflammation
- Pain
- Depression or anxiety
- Anemia
- Infections
- Sleep issues like insomnia or sleep apnea
- Physical activity during the day to help you fall asleep more easily at night
- Improving sleep hygiene, such as going to bed and waking up at the same time, and removing electronic devices from the bedroom
- Cognitive-behavioral therapy components that focus on setting goals or shifting attention away from fatigue
Brain fog and cognitive changes
Another frustrating symptom of RA is brain fog. While many people experience this type of fogginess at some point in their lives, patients with RA may experience it more frequently. For RA patients, brain fog can feel like:- Hazy thoughts
- Poor memory
- Mispronouncing or slurring words
- Trouble comprehending or saying words
- Trouble focusing
- Keeping notes of things you want to remember
- Setting reminders, such as when to take medication
- Strengthening brain power with activities such as puzzles
- Repetition, such as repeating a person’s name after meeting them for the first time
Depression and anxiety

Itchy skin
People with RA sometimes experience itchy skin. This can be caused by the condition itself due to inflammation, or by other conditions that are commonly associated with RA like eczema. Certain medications can also cause itchiness. Because the causes of chronic itch aren’t well understood, it can be hard to determine why you’re feeling itchy. People with chronic conditions like RA have a higher risk of developing chronic hives, which may occur because of an overactive immune system. One study of more than 12,000 people with chronic hives found that women with the condition had a higher incidence of RA. For some people, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) like ibuprofen can cause an itchy, measles-like rash. Biologic medications like Humira can also cause itchiness in some people with RA. Some ways to prevent or reduce itchy skin with RA include:- Bathing in lukewarm water
- Limiting showers and baths to up to 10 minutes
- Wearing loose-fitting cotton clothing
- Using fragrance-free lotion, soap, and laundry detergent
- Reducing stress (stress can make itchy skin worse)
Shortness of breath and other lung issues
If you are experiencing shortness of breath or suspect you have lung issues, you should see a healthcare provider right away. This can indicate an infection or another serious problem that requires immediate attention.
Although RA primarily affects the joints, it can sometimes cause lung issues. Interstitial lung disease, a broad category of lung disorders, is the most common and serious lung complication in patients with RA. A study published in the journal Rheumatology International found that 47% to 67% of RA patients have lung problems. Long-term inflammation can cause scarring in the lungs and the buildup of scar tissue can cause the lung tissue to become stiff. This can lead to shortness of breath, chest pain, or a persistent cough. This symptom is especially important to pay attention to. By the time these signs appear, irreversible lung damage has often already occurred.Social isolation
Living with rheumatoid arthritis can impact your psychological well-being. Many people with RA and other chronic illnesses feel socially isolated or lonely. Sometimes it means dealing with your symptoms in silence while trying to enjoy a night out with friends. It can also mean having to turn down invitations because of pain or fatigue from the illness. For some patients with RA, it can be difficult to disclose that they are feeling lonely. It might feel like it is “taboo” to talk about, even with close friends and family. Other patients may feel like they are excluded from social activities because of their illness. In one small study of Danish RA patients between the ages of 18 and 73, many of the participants reported that their loneliness began when they became ill with RA. Their loneliness was related to physical limitations, fatigue, and pain. Some of the participants also reported that they had increased mental stress due to their diagnosis and disease progression. Many of the participants were living with partners and still felt lonely. Patients also reported feeling guilty and blaming themselves for their loneliness. Although it may be difficult, talking to your loved ones about how you feel can help reduce your feelings of isolation and loneliness. It can also be beneficial to ask for help when you need it. But it isn’t just up to patients to name and manage their loneliness; the Danish study noted that healthcare practitioners should take responsibility for legitimizing feelings of loneliness in patients with RA in order to help treat and manage it.Loss of appetite
